28 Years

Happy Anniversary my love!!!

Today I (hopefully we) celebrate 28 years of being married. Today marks the day that at age 21, I married my 20-year-old best friend, lover, and confidant.

Right before the ceremony, I am on the right, he is on the left and yes this is pre-transition for both of us.

I want to wax poetic about the day we got married and the whole situation of our relationship, but I will do that at a later point. Right now I just want to express how happy I am to be here 28 years later after he asked me to marry him and I said yes.

Wolsey and Lucky getting married again for the 20th wedding anniversary in 2012

Our lives have had a lot of struggle and pain, but I still feel I won life by marrying him. The fact he stayed married to me after I was particularly shitty on our wedding night shows how much he loves me. That post is coming soon, yes I am honest about my shitty behavior as well.

He means everything to me. He is my best friend, my favorite lover, my favorite author, mechanic, cheesecake model, all of it.

Lucky and Wolsey September 2020 (after transition)

I am not joking when I say he has saved my life multiple times since I got to k now him at the age of 16. I can’t imagine my life without him now, I suspect I will be one of those spouses who wouldn’t survive very long without him.