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TBT: April 1997

TBT: Value Village ’50s sale, I am in a poodle skirt, the hubby is in black and a coworker standing beside us.
#TBT

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Followup TBT

Oh, a close up of that dress TBT April 1997.
#TBT

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Old School Oatmeal Cookies

Old School Oatmeal Cookies

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Fresh baked oatmeal cookies

Ingredients:

  • 3/4 c. shortening, soft
  • 1 c. firmly packed brown sugar
  • 1/2 c. granulated sugar
  • 1 egg
  • 1/4 c. water
  • 1 tsp. vanilla
  • 1 c. sifted all-purpose flour
  • 1 tsp. salt
  • 1/2 tsp. baking soda
  • 3 c. oats, uncooked

Instructions:

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    Combine in a mixer the sugar, eggs, vanilla water and shortening together.

  • Add the flour, soda and salt in a separate bowl and stir together.
  • Cream the flour mixture into the sugar/shortening mixture.
  • Add oats into the mix.
  • Drop by the teaspoon onto greased cookie sheets (or in my case silicon baking mat).
  • Bake on preheated oven at 350 degrees for approximately 13 minutes (give or take based on taste).
  • Let sit for at least 5 minutes to cool down.
  • Enjoy

I think these are the best oatmeal cookies I have tasted in years.

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TBT: 9-19-2009

Throwback Thursday 9-19-09. In the midst of a Dying Light session. Myself, hubby and a ton of my friends. #TBT

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TBT

From winter storm of 2003. My brother Derek, friend Alex and a classmate. Yes that is me with blond hair. #TBT

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August 2007 – TBT

TBT – The three siblings, Jackie, myself, and little brother Derek. August 11, 2007. Damn 7 years already?

Posted in General Update Internal Thoughts

A Comparison of Cats

I have talked a lot about my cats to people, usually about how big they are. Today I got a picture of the husband holding Marmalade and was able to put it side by side with a pic of the hubby holding Orpheus (our previous cat) about 3 years ago.

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It did confirm for me what I thought, Orpheus was as big (if not a little bigger) as a base body. He is fairly skinny in the picture, but he had been sick for months and we had to euthanize him later the day that picture was taken.

Then we have Marmalade. I don’t think he is much less in length (from head to tail) but he definitely isn’t as tall. However, Marmalade makes up for it in many ways, by being much broader in the chest (more like a tiger build), definitely more in the “I am fat and fabulous” way, he has to weight close to half again what Orpheus weighed. The other aspect that you won’t see in pictures, Marmalade is much nicer.

Orpheus loved me, he would let me manhandle him, play with him, carry him inappropriately. He would mostly let the hubby do it as well. However, he would eat anyone else’s face for even looking at him wrong (also, when he would chase the hubby down, Orpheus would knock him down by flying at the back of the hubby’s knees). Whereas Marmalade only wants to lay on you, if he wants something, he will patiently bump his head into you repeatedly or sit a few feet away with his back to you in disapproval.

I just wanted to share that with my friends and family. I do miss Orpheus, he would never have tolerated Marmalade, but he was a pretty great cat. However, Marmalade is such a sweetie, I wouldn’t get rid of him for anything.

 

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TBT: Christmas 1977

Throwback Thursday: I believe this is Christmas 1977 with myself and Jackie (my little sister).

Posted in Internal Thoughts Opinion

Blue Lives What?

freedmanstreetcops1First, I need to say I feel badly for the two cops executed and their families. That is a horrendous thing that should never have happened. Most cops are good, (although I won’t call a cop good if they are in the same department and don’t point a finger at the bad cops) and I assume these specific cops did not deserve it.

However, I see this trend on several social media sites were people (usually white middle class or above) are ranting that they “better see some protests now” for the cops, as if this is the same thing as what happened to Eric Garner or Mike Brown. I am sorry but your white privilege blinders are showing.

It is by no means the same thing. 

Cops have access to their own powers of law (arresting people, killing people, etc) but in addition to this they have the entire societal, court and government systems behind them. You can be guaranteed that any cop beat up, let alone killed will have the person accused of doing that indicted for a crime. The cops have the power, they not only have it, they ARE it.

The reason for the protests is because minorities do not have any recourse. They don’t have the power to arrest someone who victimized them, they don’t even have the power to stop from being victimized. They especially don’t have the ability to stop being victimized by those with power (aka COPS). A minority group member is unlikely to have the victimizer be indicted or charged, especially if that victimizer is a cop.

The idea of protesting is to underline that power imbalance and to protest it. It is to bring to the people in charge,¬†that everyone else isn’t being treated “equal”. It is to protest the victimization of minorities who daily have to worry how someone in power (e.g. a cop) is going to treat them.

This is why there are no protests to underline the power imbalance for cops, because they are the power imbalance. Cops don’t need attention or support, they already can do what they want.

The whole switching #BlackLivesMatter to that stupid Blue Lives Matter (no I won’t actually hashtag it) just shows the complete misunderstanding that both the cops and the white media have of the situation.

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TBT: 1978

Throwback Thursday
This is sometime in 1977 or 1978 I believe. My sister and myself. Actually upon thinking it probably is 1978 since that is a BSG poster in the background.