It has been a long time since I was out and about in public as often as this last week. I forgot about the dozen microaggressions in each store, and the contrasting supporting smiles I get. This has been the most I have been in public with the new boobs, and the new fat transfer, … Continue reading Harassed twice in 15 hours…
Overcoming pre-transition ideas.
I have to admit that I never understood why anyone would put botox or lip filler in before I transitioned. Not that I ever had a problem with it. I always felt a person should do what they want with their body as long as it made them happy, but I never understood it. Well … Continue reading Overcoming pre-transition ideas.
365 Project – March 2021
https://youtu.be/m_9mKGYKzpU This post is going back to the March 2021 monthly photo/video challenge. All rights belong to freemusicarchive.org: https://freemusicarchive.org/Terms_of_Use Song: Hard Fragility Creator: Bisou Page: https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Bisou/Musical_spaceshift/Bisou_-_Musical_Spaceship_-_02_Hard_Fragility This is licensed under a CC0 1.0 Universal License.
365 Project – February 2021
https://youtu.be/D0mmei4EEA4 I totally put off touching a lot of my art/digital/etc due to a downturn in mental health and two different surgeries (thyroidectomy and my abdominal work) and now I am starting to want to get back to it. This post is going back to the February 2021 monthly photo/video challenge. More are coming, but … Continue reading 365 Project – February 2021
Traditional women’s concerns
I absolutely love the results from my surgeries on my face via FFS. The bone work laid out by Dr. Ley, and the skin/muscle/fat work done by Dr. Mangubat have left me for the first time in 50 years finding I love how I look, and not looking at myself so hatefully. While I have … Continue reading Traditional women’s concerns
Oh… (dream)
I always hate it when I sit to write out the specifics and the details area already drifting away like smoke you can't keep in your hands. I also hate that in order to capture as much of the dream and not change things I need to post it ASAP. Wolsey and I were in … Continue reading Oh… (dream)
Expectations
It is funny how you can go through the first 50 years of your life and not realize how fucked up things are. Mostly today I am referring to expectations, and especially with expectations, I have placed on myself. The last couple of weeks or so I realized that most of my life is based … Continue reading Expectations
50
This is it, I turned 50 today and I am not sure what to really talk or consider about it. The first photo of me in my 50s. I can tell you I don't feel bad, I feel really good. I am in a great marriage of 29 years this year. I am happily working … Continue reading 50
A tangent about books
I don't know why, but the last few days I have had an urge to read some of the books I read when I was a teenager. I am sure it is slightly a nostalgic thing, but moreso I am curious how they held up... meaning I doubt most of them do. One of the … Continue reading A tangent about books
Throwback Thursday 7-22-21
Today I wanted to post a picture of my paternal grandmother and myself, and being in an ornery mood I thought I wanted a more unusual Throwback Thursday. Here is me visiting my grandmother at the age of 1 or 2, sometime late 1972 or early 1973 at "Purdy", aka Washington Correct Center for Women … Continue reading Throwback Thursday 7-22-21
A Girl U Should Know 