PT: Hubby gets revenge

Project Throwback: April 14, 2013

It is uncommon for the hubby to get pictures of me. Especially pictures I am not aware of. Here is one of those, plus a second from same day (but I was aware of that).

That butt is “magically delicious” or at least that is what the PJs are saying.

The hubby decided on this day to take a couple of pictures of me. Evidently, he couldn’t get enough of my “Magically Delicious” butt with those Lucky Charm pajamas while he was working on his school work (this is before he came out).

8 years and 120+ lbs heavier ago.

He also got a pic of me later in the day getting tattoo work. Of course, this is all four+ years before I started to transition. I ended up losing that weight since then. I have no idea who the woman was though, and it was vaguely uncomfortable that my tattoo artist had her stay to watch. I was pretty dysphoric anyways (no one knew) and I hated who I was.

Image cropped so you don’t have to see my butt!

This picture is closer to what I look like about 18 months ago. I suspect it will look even different in four weeks after my Avelar Tummy Tuck and fat transfer as well next week.

By the way, I still love my tattoos, in fact I love them even more. The left arm tattoo has been filled out and vastly expanded into 1/2 to 2/3 sleeve as well.

PT: A Nice Lunch

Project Throwback: April 7, 2013

Hubby in 2013 (pretransition) with his health finally recovering.

2013 was a pretty good year for us. On April 7th we were enjoying our lunch at Pho Mai Noodles in Everett. Wolsey’s health was improving (he was going into remission) and he was starting his year of testing being fully female before transitioning (I didn’t know that at the time).

PT: Mail Order Husband

On April 2, 2003 I received a very special package in the mail.

Yep, hubby in 2003 (before transition).

Here he is, my awesome husband… ok, this was almost 10 years before he transitioned so he was hiding as my wife at the time. Damn he is good at makeup, took me 22 years (about 10 years after this picture) to see the man he was. Not sure where he hid everything.

The picture reminds me of during that time when we were living in the trailer and the hubby was making his own Lolita dress style in the early 2000s. He had so many awesome dresses and outfits that he created. I am very sure that this is one of the reasons my style is eccentric. Even when we first met when we were both 16/17 I was fixated on women who dressed like that (in a punk/goth/techno/eccentric style). I don’t know if I was attracted to be with them, or to become them. I guess with a lot of luck I got both worlds with my husband.

I love you hubby.

#hubby #wifey #pretransition #ftm #2003 #love #forever #hesewedthat #lolita #transgender #trans #projectthrowback

28 Years

Happy Anniversary my love!!!

Today I (hopefully we) celebrate 28 years of being married. Today marks the day that at age 21, I married my 20-year-old best friend, lover, and confidant.

Right before the ceremony, I am on the right, he is on the left and yes this is pre-transition for both of us.

I want to wax poetic about the day we got married and the whole situation of our relationship, but I will do that at a later point. Right now I just want to express how happy I am to be here 28 years later after he asked me to marry him and I said yes.

Wolsey and Lucky getting married again for the 20th wedding anniversary in 2012

Our lives have had a lot of struggle and pain, but I still feel I won life by marrying him. The fact he stayed married to me after I was particularly shitty on our wedding night shows how much he loves me. That post is coming soon, yes I am honest about my shitty behavior as well.

He means everything to me. He is my best friend, my favorite lover, my favorite author, mechanic, cheesecake model, all of it.

Lucky and Wolsey September 2020 (after transition)

I am not joking when I say he has saved my life multiple times since I got to k now him at the age of 16. I can’t imagine my life without him now, I suspect I will be one of those spouses who wouldn’t survive very long without him.

Hubby asking me to marry him
Wolsey day before our vow renewal
My favorite pic from 2020 of the hubby (post transition)

I love you my heart. I would do anything for you. Just say the words. Oh, and once again, Happy Anniversary my love!!!

Such a patient husband!

I can’t tell you how much I love you…. except to say Forever.

Flashback 2/21/2012 – “A New Family”

10-06-2020 Update: In my old vlogs I never really came up with a script, I just did it on the fly, it ends up with me repeating or shifting words in the middle. So, my transcription below is text to speech that has been modified to be readable.

  • Original Airdate: 2/21/2012
  • Upload Date: 10/06/2020
  • Status: Pre transition
  • Subject: Animals, Financial and Family

TRANSCRIPTION

Hello guys it’s been a little while since I posted. it’s been actually a couple months and I’m just going to make this really quick kind of give you a quick update.

we are finally out of debt of $35,000 worth of medical bills, a ton of money for moving three to four times across three different cities, and we are finally out of credit card debt. I’m pretty stoked now we only have to focus on car payments and then eventually student loans which will take about 20,000 years.

Other than that, I’m getting my bridgework done for my teeth. they recently worked on it and found the anchor tooth was too rotten, so they had to pull that out. they are going to have to give me an extra-long bridge and today my temporary bridge popped out. I go back in tomorrow they’ll put this back in and then next week they’ll put the real bridge in.

Other than that, it’s been a little rough with the cat gone (Orpheus). He passed away in November, but we do have a bunch of new family members. me and the wife went out on Sunday and we picked up two Guinea pigs and two rats the rats are hers and their named Frank and Mira and the white Guinea pig is Bellona, she’s the Roman goddess of war and Mars’s sister and the black one is Camilla named after an Amazon warrior who was known to be really fast. I’ll cut and show you them, introduce you to them and then we’ll come back.

And that was pretty much it just a quick update we have some new animals I am getting my dental done and we have new rats, so I’ll talk to you later bye